Part of the
Israeli experience, unfortunately, is the going through these overly frequent
periods of mass military operations as a civilian. The British of World War II and the North
Vietnamese of the 1970’s are quite familiar with the sensations of random
violence from the air. It creates, no
pun intended, a heavy atmosphere for even the most banal activity, regardless
if your town is subject to or spared from the missiles. For purposes of context, I live in Karmiel in
the northern part of Israel. In my 25 years here, I have experienced on a first
hand basis missiles during the two Iraq wars and the Second Lebanese War,
including helping young daughter get through this. I admit that my somewhat limited exposures
does not compare with those living in Sderot in southern Israel or Kiriat Shmone in
northern Israel, but does provide some intimate knowledge of the joy of rockets
in air. Also, as in all crises,
reactions are individual, varying from person to person.
The randomness
and helplessness of being a civilian creates several common phenomena. First, using official and unofficial
information, people creates their “rules of safe behavior”. On one extreme, this can mean never leaving
the safe room. On the other extreme,
some individuals assume that life and death are just a matter of luck and go
everywhere since it makes no difference.
My attitude under fire was that, based on my analysis of the cases of
actual death by missile, my home is my castle, i.e. stay inside as much as possible
to be safe. I believe that I am correct, at least statistically.
For those that
leave the apparent safety of their house, the next issue is what to do if you
are “caught” by an alert while driving or doing shopping. Yes, people do need to eat even during a
war. In the former, there are several
attitudes. I admit that I used to keep
on driving, counting on the laws of probability to keep me safe. In other words, I have much less chance of
dying from a missile than I have from a car accident. The home front department advises otherwise:
pull over, get out of your car, and hit the dirt or, if possible, get near a
wall, covering your head with your arms.
I don’t feel scared enough to do that, but it does make sense. If out in the city running errands, some
people first check where the nearest safe room or stair case is, similar to
parents with small children checking where the bathroom is. The opposite
reaction is quite “human”: turn on the Smartphone video and film the whole
event. Logically, it is probably the
most dangerous way to react, but instinctively it takes over if a person
believes in immortality and is not actually frightened by the rocket.
The last issue I
will address is dealing with the tensions.
People release their tension through one or more of the following
physical manners: mashing teeth (dentists are quite busy after the war), eating
more or less than usual, talking about their fears or insisting that the
endless tension has no effect on them, constantly or never watching the news,
or playing video games, to name a few. I
know that this stress does leave a scar on a person’s psyche, but so do one’s
parents and childhood years in general for that matter.
So, war is hell,
but a personal hell for civilians. It is
also part of an Israeli’s identity, distinguishing him or her from most other
people. From time to time, people will
list the “wars” they gone through.
Sadly, my list is getting longer and will probably expand in the future. As that optimistic Israeli goes, we also get
through that.