In Alvin
Toffler’s famous book Future Shock, he discussed the ever-increasing
pace of changes over a person’s lifetime in the last two hundred years and its
effect on people and society. For
example, my grandmother, born at the beginning of the 20th century, found
modern life quite confusing even if she did somehow cope with it.
Watching people
around me with their omnipresent, omniscient, and omnipotent smartphones, I
started to recall the world of communication when I was growing, taking into account
that I am 50+ years old. I by no means
imply that my childhood was the good old days of communication, but only how
different life was some 40 years ago.
All phones were
line phones, literally. You had to sit
next to the phone, no moving around. In
some countries, like Israel, customers had to wait two or more years to even
get a line. If news was urgent,
generally deaths, people actually send telegrams. The classic Yves Montand routine about the
romanticism of the latter has aged well: http://youtu.be/18jjp223m8Q
Outside the
house, options were limited. In the
United States, local phone calls were 10 cents (as were candy bars for matter)
if you were lucky to find a working phone booth. In Israel and some European countries, they
had special coins, called assimonim in Israel and jetons in
France. People used to walk around with
pocketfuls of them in their pocket or purse for emergencies. They were also considered less susceptible to
inflation, making them a good investment.
Otherwise, husbands did their grocery shopping literally alone and made
their own decisions, without checking with their spouses, believe it or
not. People talked in the beginning of
the day, informing each other of their plans and actually waited until the
evening before discussing the day’s events.
Women went to the bathroom to powder their nose (not really), not to
discuss the date on the telephone. People talking out lout to themselves in the
streets were considered abnormal, not normal.
There is an old
Israeli joke: Why do Israelis ejaculate so quickly? So, they can run and tell and friends. Today, you don’t even have to run. It is completely irrelevant whether today’s
world is better or worse. These changes
over time, like differences in culture, are neither good nor bad, but merely
different and food for thought.